SMS, iMessage, or another app?
Choose an explicitly supported channel. A product described as textable may deliver through iMessage, RCS, WhatsApp, or Telegram without promising standard SMS. Check the onboarding route for your device.
One alert or a continuing routine?
A single reminder needs a due time. A repeating task also needs a frequency, exceptions, and an end condition. A follow-up based on whether someone replies may require access to the relevant account.
Can you correct it in one reply?
Move a test reminder, list what is active, and cancel it. The service should make it clear whether it updated the original item or created another notification.